{"id":4084,"date":"2025-09-09T14:43:36","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T21:43:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/love-is\/"},"modified":"2025-09-09T14:43:36","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T21:43:36","slug":"love-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/love-is\/","title":{"rendered":"Love is"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I remind you Allen Ginsberg, near the end, said I was a god of storm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Love is more, more or less<br \/>Love is<br \/>Love is a beast from the depths, risen<br \/>Love is a contest you hope to win by entering 10,000 times<br \/>Love is a curse, bestowed on mankind by Eros; not knowing it\u2019s a curse is part of the curse<br \/>Love is a grandiose statement; oversell<br \/>Love is a sad eye dog in an alley; no one wants that painting anymore<br \/>Love is a virus which cannot be inoculated against<br \/>All you can do is wash your hands a lot. Sweat it out. Quarantine.<br \/>Love is an illusion caused by delirium<br \/>Love is blind; it is a guide dog who is prone to licking<br \/>Love is frequently taken aback<br \/>Love is just something people say<br \/>Love is lost, possibly in the couch cushions.<br \/>Love is sold so often it loses value<br \/>Love is something I left somewhere and now cannot find<br \/>Love is something that goes down the drain; but, if it\u2019s heavy enough, it gets caught in the trap<br \/>Love is something that will make you strong \u2013 if it doesn\u2019t kill you<br \/>Love is something which, when given, is often not returned<br \/>Love is the journey not the destination<br \/>Love is something you order in a restaurant and when it comes does not look as you pictured it<br \/>Love is something you read about in a disreputable publication<br \/>Love is sticking your finger into the hole in my heart; stopping the leak<br \/>Love is tactile, making it hard to discern from a distance<br \/>Love is the abandonment of all other options; for better or worse<br \/>Love is the wanted sign at the post<br \/>Love is the writing on the wall, but it\u2019s written in the wrong language, and no one can understand<br \/>Love is.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-attachment-id=\"4083\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/img_2953\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953.jpg\" data-orig-size=\"1500,2000\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;2.2&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;iPhone 13 Pro Max&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1683673010&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;2.71&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;320&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.016666666666667&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;1&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"img_2953\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-768x1024.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-768x1024.jpg\" class=\"wp-image-4083\" srcset=\"https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953-720x960.jpg 720w, https:\/\/davidraffin.com\/weblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/img_2953.jpg 1500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I remind you Allen Ginsberg, near the end, said I was a god of storm. Love is more, more or lessLove isLove is a beast from the depths, risenLove is a contest you hope to win by entering 10,000 timesLove is a curse, bestowed on mankind by Eros; not knowing it\u2019s a curse is part of the curseLove is a grandiose statement; oversellLove is a sad eye dog in an alley; no one wants that painting anymoreLove is a virus which cannot be inoculated againstAll you can do is wash your hands a lot. Sweat it out. 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